不同地方有不同的礼仪。
在一些国家，第一次见面要握手；在一些地方，人们会鞠躬；在一些文化里，准时很重要；在另一些场合，吃饭、送礼、拜访别人家都有自己的规则。英语里，You’re supposed to shake hands. 的意思是“你应该握手 / 按照习俗你应当握手。”
为了让课程标题更安全、更像自己的体系，这一节可以用：礼仪、习俗与正确做法。
核心句子
English | 中文 |
You’re supposed to shake hands. | 你应该握手。 |
What are we supposed to do? | 我们应该做什么？ |
You’re supposed to be on time. | 你应该准时。 |
You’re not supposed to be late. | 你不应该迟到。 |
People are supposed to bow in some countries. | 在一些国家，人们应该鞠躬。 |
We should respect local customs. | 我们应该尊重当地习俗。 |
It is polite to say hello. | 打招呼是礼貌的。 |
It is rude to talk loudly. | 大声说话是不礼貌的。 |
Different countries have different customs. | 不同国家有不同习俗。 |
When in Rome, do as the Romans do. | 入乡随俗。 |
Good manners help people communicate. | 好礼仪帮助人们交流。 |
Culture teaches us how to behave. | 文化教我们怎样举止得体。 |
1. 礼仪和习俗词汇
先学习一些和礼仪、习俗有关的基础词汇。
English | 中文 |
custom | 习俗 |
culture | 文化 |
manners | 礼貌 / 礼仪 |
polite | 礼貌的 |
rude | 粗鲁的 / 不礼貌的 |
behave | 表现 / 举止 |
behavior | 行为 |
greeting | 问候 |
shake hands | 握手 |
bow | 鞠躬 |
kiss | 亲吻 |
hug | 拥抱 |
on time | 准时 |
late | 迟到的 |
respect | 尊重 |
注意：
manners 常用复数，表示“礼貌 / 礼仪”。
English | 中文 |
Good manners are important. | 好礼仪很重要。 |
He has good manners. | 他很有礼貌。 |
2. 问“我们应该做什么？”
在不熟悉的文化或场合中，可以问别人应该怎么做。
English | 中文 |
What are we supposed to do? | 我们应该做什么？ |
What am I supposed to say? | 我应该说什么？ |
What are we supposed to wear? | 我们应该穿什么？ |
Are we supposed to shake hands? | 我们应该握手吗？ |
Are we supposed to arrive on time? | 我们应该准时到达吗？ |
结构：
English Structure | 中文意思 |
What am I supposed to + verb? | 我应该做什么？ |
What are we supposed to + verb? | 我们应该做什么？ |
Are we supposed to + verb? | 我们应该……吗？ |
例子：
English | 中文 |
What are we supposed to do at dinner? | 晚餐时我们应该做什么？ |
You’re supposed to say thank you. | 你应该说谢谢。 |
Are we supposed to bring a gift? | 我们应该带礼物吗？ |
Yes, a small gift is nice. | 是的，一个小礼物很好。 |
3. be supposed to：应该 / 按规定应该
这一课的重要结构是 be supposed to + 动词原形。
它表示“按规定、习俗、期待，应该做某事”。
English | 中文 |
I am supposed to be quiet. | 我应该保持安静。 |
You are supposed to shake hands. | 你应该握手。 |
He is supposed to arrive early. | 他应该早点到。 |
She is supposed to call her parents. | 她应该给父母打电话。 |
We are supposed to follow the rules. | 我们应该遵守规则。 |
结构：
English Structure | 中文意思 |
am supposed to + verb | 我应该做某事 |
is supposed to + verb | 他 / 她 / 它应该做某事 |
are supposed to + verb | 你 / 我们 / 他们应该做某事 |
例子：
English | 中文 |
Students are supposed to listen in class. | 学生应该在课堂上听讲。 |
We are supposed to clean up after lunch. | 午饭后我们应该清理。 |
You are supposed to wait your turn. | 你应该等轮到你。 |
注意：
supposed to 后面用动词原形。
Wrong | Correct | 中文 |
supposed to shaking hands | supposed to shake hands | 应该握手 |
supposed to arrives early | supposed to arrive early | 应该早到 |
supposed to being quiet | supposed to be quiet | 应该安静 |
4. be not supposed to：不应该
表达“不应该 / 按规定不该做”，用：
be not supposed to + 动词原形
English | 中文 |
You’re not supposed to be late. | 你不应该迟到。 |
We’re not supposed to talk loudly. | 我们不应该大声说话。 |
Students are not supposed to run in the hallway. | 学生不应该在走廊里跑。 |
You’re not supposed to eat in class. | 你不应该在课堂上吃东西。 |
We’re not supposed to laugh at others. | 我们不应该嘲笑别人。 |
结构：
English Structure | 中文意思 |
am not supposed to + verb | 我不应该做某事 |
is not supposed to + verb | 他 / 她 / 它不应该做某事 |
are not supposed to + verb | 你 / 我们 / 他们不应该做某事 |
缩写：
Full Form | Short Form | 中文 |
you are supposed to | you’re supposed to | 你应该 |
you are not supposed to | you’re not supposed to | 你不应该 |
we are supposed to | we’re supposed to | 我们应该 |
we are not supposed to | we’re not supposed to | 我们不应该 |
例子：
English | 中文 |
You’re not supposed to use your phone at dinner. | 晚餐时你不应该用手机。 |
We’re not supposed to speak with food in our mouths. | 嘴里有食物时我们不应该说话。 |
He is not supposed to leave early. | 他不应该早走。 |
5. 见面礼仪：greetings
不同文化有不同的问候方式。
English | 中文 |
shake hands | 握手 |
bow | 鞠躬 |
hug | 拥抱 |
kiss on the cheek | 亲吻脸颊 |
say hello | 打招呼 |
smile | 微笑 |
make eye contact | 眼神交流 |
introduce yourself | 自我介绍 |
例子：
English | 中文 |
In China, people often shake hands in formal situations. | 在中国，人们在正式场合常常握手。 |
In Japan, people often bow. | 在日本，人们常常鞠躬。 |
In some countries, friends hug when they meet. | 在一些国家，朋友见面会拥抱。 |
It is polite to smile and say hello. | 微笑并打招呼是礼貌的。 |
结构：
English Structure | 中文意思 |
In + country, people + usually / often + verb. | 在某国家，人们通常 / 常常……。 |
It is polite to + verb. | 做某事是礼貌的。 |
It is rude to + verb. | 做某事是不礼貌的。 |
6. 准时与迟到
时间观念也是文化的一部分。
English | 中文 |
be on time | 准时 |
be late | 迟到 |
arrive early | 早到 |
arrive on time | 准时到达 |
appointment | 预约 / 约定 |
meeting | 会议 / 见面 |
class | 课 |
party | 派对 |
例子：
English | 中文 |
You’re supposed to be on time. | 你应该准时。 |
You’re not supposed to be late. | 你不应该迟到。 |
We are supposed to arrive early for class. | 我们应该提前到教室。 |
In some cultures, being on time is very important. | 在一些文化里，准时非常重要。 |
结构：
English Structure | 中文意思 |
be supposed to be on time | 应该准时 |
be not supposed to be late | 不应该迟到 |
arrive at + place | 到达某地 |
arrive for + event | 为某活动到达 |
注意：
on time 是“准时”。in time 是“及时”。
English | 中文 |
I arrived on time. | 我准时到了。 |
I arrived in time for the movie. | 我及时赶上了电影。 |
7. 餐桌礼仪
吃饭时也有礼仪。
English | 中文 |
table manners | 餐桌礼仪 |
use chopsticks | 使用筷子 |
use a fork | 使用叉子 |
use a knife | 使用刀 |
wait for others | 等别人 |
say thank you | 说谢谢 |
eat quietly | 安静地吃 |
chew with your mouth closed | 闭嘴咀嚼 |
例子：
English | 中文 |
You’re supposed to say thank you after dinner. | 晚饭后你应该说谢谢。 |
You’re not supposed to talk with your mouth full. | 嘴里满是食物时你不应该说话。 |
We are supposed to wait for others before eating. | 吃饭前我们应该等别人。 |
It is polite to use chopsticks correctly. | 正确使用筷子是礼貌的。 |
结构：
English Structure | 中文意思 |
table manners | 餐桌礼仪 |
with your mouth full | 嘴里满是食物 |
wait for + person | 等某人 |
use + tool + correctly | 正确使用某工具 |
8. 去别人家做客
拜访别人家时，也要注意礼貌。
English | 中文 |
visit someone’s home | 拜访某人家 |
bring a gift | 带礼物 |
take off your shoes | 脱鞋 |
say thank you | 说谢谢 |
be polite | 礼貌 |
ask before using something | 使用东西前先询问 |
clean up | 清理 |
say goodbye | 告别 |
例子：
English | 中文 |
You’re supposed to bring a small gift. | 你应该带一个小礼物。 |
You’re supposed to take off your shoes. | 你应该脱鞋。 |
You’re not supposed to open the fridge. | 你不应该打开冰箱。 |
You’re supposed to thank the host. | 你应该感谢主人。 |
结构：
English Structure | 中文意思 |
bring a gift | 带礼物 |
take off your shoes | 脱鞋 |
thank the host | 感谢主人 |
ask before + verb-ing | 在做某事前先询问 |
注意：
不同家庭习惯不同。最安全的做法是问一句：
English | 中文 |
Should I take off my shoes? | 我应该脱鞋吗？ |
Is it okay if I sit here? | 我坐这里可以吗？ |
9. 入乡随俗
当我们进入不同文化时，要学会观察和尊重。
English | 中文 |
Different countries have different customs. | 不同国家有不同习俗。 |
We should respect local customs. | 我们应该尊重当地习俗。 |
We should learn before we visit. | 拜访前我们应该先学习。 |
We should watch and listen. | 我们应该观察和倾听。 |
We should ask polite questions. | 我们应该礼貌地提问。 |
When in Rome, do as the Romans do. | 入乡随俗。 |
结构：
English Structure | 中文意思 |
local customs | 当地习俗 |
respect + noun | 尊重…… |
ask polite questions | 礼貌地提问 |
do as + people + do | 像某人一样做 |
例子：
English | 中文 |
When we travel, we should respect local customs. | 当我们旅行时，我们应该尊重当地习俗。 |
If we are not sure, we can ask. | 如果我们不确定，可以问。 |
Good manners make people feel comfortable. | 好礼仪让人感觉舒服。 |
10. 写一份文化礼仪指南
这一课可以做一份简单的礼仪指南。
English | 中文 |
Make a manners guide. | 制作一份礼仪指南。 |
Choose one country or place. | 选择一个国家或地方。 |
Write greeting customs. | 写下问候习俗。 |
Write table manners. | 写下餐桌礼仪。 |
Write what people are supposed to do. | 写下人们应该做什么。 |
Write what people are not supposed to do. | 写下人们不应该做什么。 |
礼仪指南模板：
English | 中文 |
Place: Japan | 地点：日本 |
Greeting: People often bow. | 问候：人们常常鞠躬。 |
You’re supposed to be polite. | 你应该有礼貌。 |
You’re supposed to be on time. | 你应该准时。 |
You’re not supposed to talk loudly. | 你不应该大声说话。 |
We should respect local customs. | 我们应该尊重当地习俗。 |
另一个模板：
English | 中文 |
Place: China | 地点：中国 |
Greeting: People may shake hands. | 问候：人们可能握手。 |
You’re supposed to say hello. | 你应该打招呼。 |
You’re supposed to thank the host. | 你应该感谢主人。 |
You’re not supposed to be rude. | 你不应该粗鲁。 |
Good manners are important. | 好礼仪很重要。 |
重点结构
English Structure | 中文意思 |
You’re supposed to shake hands. | 你应该握手。 |
What are we supposed to do? | 我们应该做什么？ |
You’re supposed to be on time. | 你应该准时。 |
You’re not supposed to be late. | 你不应该迟到。 |
People are supposed to bow in some countries. | 在一些国家，人们应该鞠躬。 |
It is polite to say hello. | 打招呼是礼貌的。 |
It is rude to talk loudly. | 大声说话是不礼貌的。 |
We should respect local customs. | 我们应该尊重当地习俗。 |
Different countries have different customs. | 不同国家有不同习俗。 |
When in Rome, do as the Romans do. | 入乡随俗。 |
小对话
English | 中文 |
A: What are we supposed to do when we meet someone? | A：见到别人时，我们应该做什么？ |
B: In some countries, you’re supposed to shake hands. | B：在一些国家，你应该握手。 |
A: Are we supposed to be on time? | A：我们应该准时吗？ |
B: Yes. Being on time is polite. | B：是的。准时是礼貌的。 |
A: What are we not supposed to do? | A：我们不应该做什么？ |
B: We’re not supposed to talk loudly. | B：我们不应该大声说话。 |
A: Why should we learn customs? | A：我们为什么应该学习习俗？ |
B: Because good manners help people communicate. | B：因为好礼仪帮助人们交流。 |
开口练习
请大声读下面的句子。
English | 中文 |
You’re supposed to shake hands. | 你应该握手。 |
What are we supposed to do? | 我们应该做什么？ |
You’re supposed to be on time. | 你应该准时。 |
You’re not supposed to be late. | 你不应该迟到。 |
It is polite to say hello. | 打招呼是礼貌的。 |
It is rude to talk loudly. | 大声说话是不礼貌的。 |
We should respect local customs. | 我们应该尊重当地习俗。 |
Different countries have different customs. | 不同国家有不同习俗。 |
现在用你自己的情况练习：
English | 中文 |
You’re supposed to _____. | 你应该_____。 |
You’re not supposed to _____. | 你不应该_____。 |
In my culture, people _____. | 在我的文化里，人们_____。 |
It is polite to _____. | _____是礼貌的。 |
It is rude to _____. | _____是不礼貌的。 |
We should respect _____. | 我们应该尊重_____。 |
Good manners help us _____. | 好礼仪帮助我们_____。 |
本节小结
在这一节，你学会了如何用英语谈论礼仪、习俗和正确做法。
你现在应该能说：
English | 中文 |
You’re supposed to shake hands. | 你应该握手。 |
You’re supposed to be on time. | 你应该准时。 |
You’re not supposed to be late. | 你不应该迟到。 |
It is polite to say hello. | 打招呼是礼貌的。 |
We should respect local customs. | 我们应该尊重当地习俗。 |
When in Rome, do as the Romans do. | 入乡随俗。 |
礼仪不是空洞的规矩。
它像一张看不见的地图，告诉我们怎样在别人的世界里轻轻落脚。学会这些句子后，你就可以用英语谈论不同文化中的习俗，也能更自然地表达“应该做什么”和“不应该做什么”。